Weekly Safeguarding Messsage
WHY DO TEENAGERS AND CHILDREN SELF-HARM?
The reasons children and teenagers can self-harm are often complicated and will be different for every child or young person. Sometimes a child or teenager may not know the reasons they self-harm.
For many young people, self-harm can feel like a way to cope with difficult feelings or to release tension. The physical pain of hurting themselves can feel like a distraction from the emotional pain they're struggling with.
Some difficult experiences or emotions can make self-harm more likely in children:
- experiencing depressin, anxiety or eating problems
- having lw self-esteem or feeling like they’re not good enough
- being bullied r feeling alone
- experiencing emtional, physical or sexual abuse, or neglect
- grieving r having problems with family relationships
- feeling angry, numb r like they don't have control over their lives.
Signs of self-harm in children and teenagers
It can be hard to recognise the signs of self-harm in children and teenagers, but as a parent it’s important to trust your instincts if you’re worried something’s wrong.
Signs to look out for can include:
- cvering up, for example by wearing long sleeves a lot of the time, especially in summer
- unexplained bruises, cuts, burns r bite-marks on their body
- blood stains on clothing, or finding tissues with blood in their room
- becming withdrawn and spending a lot of time alone in their room
- aviding friends and family and being at home
- feeling dwn, low self-esteem or blaming themselves for things
- utbursts of anger, or risky behaviour like drinking or taking drugs.
If you want to support a child who is self-harming, or you suspect is self-harming please click on the link below for more information.